8 Best Vibrators, Tested by Glamour Reviewers and Approved by Sex-Toy Experts
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Though it’s no secret that the best vibrators can help you explore your own pleasure, choosing from the seemingly countless options can be, put simply, overwhelming. I tapped Glamour’s discerning editors and reviewers, who, combined, have tested and rated (check out our rating system below) more than 100 vibrators. This includes me—a sex-toy writer who has reported on and evaluated sex toys for almost five years. I’ve also worked extensively with certified sex experts, many of whom contributed their guidance to this story. With their help and my own experience, I’ve narrowed down a world of options to a select few—so you can pick the right vibe for you, whether you intend to use it solo, with a partner(s), or both. And while (spoiler!) most agreed that the Lelo Sona 2 Cruise was the best clitoral vibrator overall, there’s something on this list that’ll please everyone, regardless of your experience level.
The best vibrators, at a glance
- Best Overall: Lelo Sona 2 Cruise,
$149$119 - Best Suction Vibrator: Satisfyer Pro 2, $50
- Best G-Spot Vibrator: Lelo Gigi 2, $109
- Most Powerful Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable,
$150$120
How we tested the vibrators
Glamour reviewers and experts evaluated over more than 100 vibrators with these main considerations in mind:
- Value: How fair the price is for its features, material, and results
- Battery life: How long its charge actually lasts compared with the length of time the product advertises—and whether that length is over at least an hour
- Ease of use: How intuitive the toy was to use, how comfortable to hold, and whether it included features like app-controllability and last-used-setting memory
- Noise level: Many toys claim to be whisper-quiet but are anything but
- Intensity: Did the toy offer a wide spectrum of sensations, from gentle to powerful? Did it maintain intensity?
To make our final selections, I took all of this comprehensive feedback into consideration, as well as my own knowledge of what vibrators experts have repeatedly recommended to me over the years; which toys are bestsellers with our readers; and what types of vibrators are most highly searched by shoppers. From there, I distilled picks into the below list of the eight best vibrators.
I’ve also included recommendations for other great vibrators worth your time. They didn’t make the cut because they were either narrowly beaten out, were perhaps more expensive, or less popular with readers. But if you’re someone who likes researching all of your options, you’ll want to glance through these sex toys as well.
1. Best Overall: Lelo Sona 2 Cruise
- Type: Suction vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 12 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
The sex experts and all of the reviewers I consulted had this suction vibrator high on their lists of faves. It has a long mouth that fits around the head of the clit and stimulates it with sonic airwaves that dial up from gentle to rumbly and intense (without actually touching you). They’re sensations you just can’t create on your own, especially not ones so powerful or so quiet. You can use the vibe by itself on the clit; incorporate it into foreplay with some teasing of the nipples and other sensitive areas like the frenulum of the penis and anus; and also take it into the tub. Plus, it’s so sleek and easy to hold, which can go a long way in elevating how sexy you feel when using it. Sex educator and Glamour writer Suzannah Weiss calls it the best vibrator she’s ever tried (seriously). “The Sona creates a prolonged climax after a sensual buildup, the kind of luxuriously drawn-out orgasm that has you feeling tingly minutes later,” she says. “I’ve tried touch-free vibrators like this before, and let me tell you, damn. It’s totally revolutionized my orgasm.” I got the Sona myself a little over a year ago and it now has a permanent place in my nightstand. What makes it stand out is its cruise-control setting. When I press it against my body, it intuitively increases in intensity, so I don’t have to fumble with buttons in the heat of the moment. I’ve found that after all this time, the vibe still holds its charge for about two hours.
- Why we love it: Wide range of settings; waterproof; unique cruise-control feature
- What could improve: Only focuses on the clit; may feel too strong for some
2. Best G-Spot Vibrator: Lelo Gigi 2
- Type: G-spot vibrator
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 4-hour run time
- Modes: 8 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
The Gigi was actually the first vibrator I ever purchased—way back in college because of how sleek it looks and how powerful I’d heard it was (from my roommate, who had one). Since then I’ve tried other G-spot vibrators and realized how good I had it with the Gigi. Its flat, angular head is wider than most dildo tips, allowing it to cover more area internally and to spread powerful vibrations throughout the vulva on up to the clit. It was more easily able to hit the G-spot than most of my partners’ penises. My iteration of the Gigi eventually gave out after six years, which is long-lasting in my book, and it’s since had model upgrades. This Lelo toy is also a fave of sex writer and Glamour tester Amanda Chatel, who in her Lelo Gigi 2 review says that once this toy is inside the vagina, you can’t possibly miss the G-spot. “When it comes to G-spot orgasms, Gigi 2 delivers more than the other G-spot stimulators of the dozens I have,” she says. “It’s even made me squirt a few times.” Also worth noting: The vibe has eight powerful intensities, and a battery lasts up to four hours on a single charge (far longer than most vibes, which usually conk out around the 90-minute mark).
- Why we love it: Can be used as both a clitoral and G-spot vibrator; long-lasting battery; girthy
- What could improve: Can be tiring to hold for long periods
3. Best Suction Vibrator: Satisfyer Pro 2
- Type: Suction vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable with 2.5-hour run time
- Modes: 11 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Amazon and Satisfyer do not offer returns on opened or used products. Contact Satisfyer’s customer service to return unopened products.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a popular vibrator that has 11 intensities with simple plus and minus buttons, an easy-to-grip handle, and a quiet motor. Its comparatively affordable $50 price tag makes it a solid pick for any beginner who wants to experience that pulse sensation (it creates air waves around the clitoris like a little vacuum) without spending too much. In her Satisfyer Pro 2 review for Glamour, certified sex educator Suzannah Weiss praised its efficiency. “It’s great to use during intercourse because I can’t usually climax that way without a toy, and I also recommend it to those who have trouble climaxing in general.” However, she cautions that the highest setting can be almost painfully powerful. Notably, the toy comes with an additional mouth attachment called the Liquid Air, which is thinner and offers more of a water-pulsing sensation than licking.
- Why we love it: Quiet; pinpointed stimulation; wide range of intensity levels
- What could improve: Only focuses on the clit; highest level may be too intense for some
4. Most Powerful Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable
- Type: Wand vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Battery: 3-hour USB-rechargeable with 3-hour run time
- Modes: 4 vibration patterns and 4 intensity levels
- Waterproof: No
- Return policy: Lovehoney does not accept returns on opened items, but offers a 100-day money-back promise on toys you don’t like. Amazon does not accept returns on opened or used products.
The Magic Wand (previously called the Hitachi Magic Wand)—one of the first vibrators on the market—was originally designed as a body massager, and it still serves well as one, especially as a warm-up for partner play. It’s stood the test of time and remains a favorite among our testers and experts alike. Nan Wise, PhD, a neuroscientist, professor, and AASECT-certified sex therapist, recommends it to her clients. “This is one of the most powerful vibrators I’ve ever used,” says Weiss. “It has four settings, and I rarely need to use the highest ones. The head is big and squishy and stimulates the internal clitoris if you position it over the labia, which means I can actually orgasm from this without even making contact with my clitoris.” Its sensations can be quite strong; experts recommend keeping a layer of fabric between you and the toy (like undies or a blanket) to muffle the intensity if it feels like too much.
The wand’s external intensity makes it worth considering for anyone going through menopause who’s experiencing a decrease in sexual sensitivity and more discomfort with penetration, says Dr. Queen. “It might mean that stronger or more direct vibes will feel more pleasurable and support arousal,” she says. The main downside to the OG wand vibe is that it can be a bit noisy and bulky. For a quieter, lighter wand vibrator with a textured head, I recommend the Fun Factory Vim.
- Why we love it: Extra powerful; flexible neck; great for foreplay and massage
- What could improve: Loud; heavy to hold for long periods
5. Best Rabbit Vibrator: Lelo Soraya 2
- Type: Rabbit vibrator
- Use: External and internal
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 4-hour run time
- Modes: 12 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
The body-safe silicone rabbit vibrator is among the most recommended of sex toys by our experts. It’s whisper-quiet, sleek, and incredibly strong, thanks to its two motors—one in the shaft and one in the arm—that operate independently, allowing you access to the G-spot and clit at the same time (or you can take turns teasing them). “Although I’m not really into experiencing two stimulations at once—I find it can be overwhelming—the design of Soraya 2 makes internal along with external stimulation feel really good,” says Chatel. “The 12 vibration settings allow me to control the intensities so I don’t climax too quickly, which is sometimes the case when I’m up against a dual-stimulating toy.”
- Why we love it: Quiet; dual stimulating; long-lasting
- What could improve: Pricey
6. Best Vibrator for Beginners: Maude Vibe
- Type: Clitoral vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable with 1.5-hour run time
- Modes: 3 intensity levels
- Waterproof: No
- Return policy: Maude does not offer returns or exchanges on used or opened vibrators.
Maude’s tapered vibrator is one of its all-time bestsellers, thanks to the fluttering tip and its discreet shape. The Maude Vibe was hands down been my go-to vibrator for over two years. I am often intimidated by all of the patterns and speeds some other vibes offer, so the Maude was such a relief. It’s simple to use, with just three settings, but don’t be fooled; the modes ramp up in intensity, and I’m able to climax back-to-back. Its oblong shape acts like a high-powered finger that spreads sensation all along my vulva The Maude Vibe is only $49—a low entry price for any beginners to vibrators who are hesitant to make a big investment. Mine did totally conk out after two years, but its price was low enough that I just replaced it with a new one.
- Why we love it: Extremely easy to use; affordable
- What could improve: Battery only lasts 90 minutes; limited intensity settings
7. Best Vibrator for Couples: Lelo Tor 3
- Type: Cock ring
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 8 vibration patterns
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
Our editors and testers have deemed this cock ring one of the best sex toys; it fits closely around the penis, restricting its blood flow and encouraging harder, longer-lasting erections. It also has eight vibration patterns, which send sensations across the penis and perineum (and the clit during partnered sex). “It’s super powerful for both my partner and myself, and the battery seems to have no end to it—which is great when I forget to charge it in between uses,” says Chatel. “It also has an app that is shockingly easy to use, making it a hands-free experience.”
- Why we love it: App-controllable; feels good against the penis and the clit; waterproof
- What could improve: Might be too tight for some penises
8. Best Remote-Controlled Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync 2
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- Type: Remote-controlled vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 1.5-hour run time
- Modes: 10 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: We-Vibe and Lovehoney do not accept returns on opened items, but both offer a 100-day money-back promise on toys you don’t like. Amazon does not accept returns on opened or used products.
The Sync 2 curves inside the vagina in a finger-like motion; one arm massages the G-spot while the other vibrates against the clit (and the penis during partnered sex). Most importantly: It’s remote- and app-controllable from anywhere in the world. “I’ve been in a lot of LDRs and used a lot of long-distance sex toys. The Sync 2 has been a favorite through them,” says Chatel. “It gets the job done and provides some intimacy in a strange, faraway way.”
- Why we love it: App-controllable; wearable; waterproof
- What could improve: No vibration patterns
Your questions about vibrators, answered
How to pick a vibrator
Picking your vibe comes down to what feels good to you, but here are some things to consider:
- Into the sensation of fingering? Try a finger vibrator that gently rubs the clit. (Like the Dame Fin)
- Can’t get enough of someone going down on you? A suction toy (a.k.a. an air-pulse toy or clit sucker) pumps air across the clit to mimic the feeling of oral sex, and that air feels fab puffed against the nipples and penis too. (Our favorites: the powerful Lelo Sona 2 Cruise, affordable Satisfyer Pro, or classic Womanizer Premium 2.)
- Chasing an internal O? There are G-spot vibrators for internal use and rabbit vibrators that hit that spot and massage the clit at the same time. (Like the Lelo Gigi 2, Lelo Soraya 2, or Womanizer OG.)
- Want to pleasure the penis? Vibrating cock rings (like the Lelo Tor 3) fit around the shaft and send rumbly vibes all along the penis, and can feel fantastic against the clit. Some male masturbators (like this one from Blowmotion or the Lelo F1S V3), meanwhile, fit around the penis and pulse waves of sensation around penile nerve endings and to the shaft.
- Just want a massage? Invest in a wand vibrator that can powerfully knead. (I like the original Magic Wand or the more discreet Maude Spot.)
How to use a vibrator
You should read the toy’s instructions first—and then experiment. Really, how you use the vibrator varies from body part to body part. Areas to try:
- On the vulva and clitoris: All vibrators can be pressed against (or hovered lightly over, in the case of some suction vibrators) the clit for external stimulation. Experts recommend first lightly moving the vibe around the vulva, paying attention to how it feels on the labia, before moving to the clit itself. Wand vibrators are notably quite intense, so you might want to keep your underwear on to start or use some fabric like a blanket to cushion its effect.
- Inside the vagina: If you have a G-spot vibrator that can be used internally, start by teasing yourself externally with it, and then slowly slipping it inside. You’ll want to use lube—an essential for comfort (see below).
- On the penis: Any vibrator (save maybe the aforementioned wickedly powerful wand vibe) might feel good gently teasing the penis and along the shaft.
- On (and/or inside) the anus. Buzz that vibrator against your butt and see how that feels. Some anal vibrators can actually be used up the butt too, but they must have a flared base to keep them from getting stuck.
- On the nipples, neck, wrist, and other erogenous zones: Get creative. Vibrators help you figure out what feels good and what doesn’t, whether you’re using them for masturbation or with someone else.
Tips for trying a vibrator for the first time
When you’re ready to test your toy, you might want to set the mood. Pick a comfortable, quiet place like your bedroom, lower the lights, and queue up a sultry playlist—whatever lets you focus and get in the zone. Start by turning on the vibe to its lowest setting and trailing it across your erogenous zones (nipples and neck, for example) and then down your body. It can also feel pleasurable stroked against the penis and anus.
If you have a vulva, start by lightly pressing on the hood of the clit with the vibrator, and then circling it and rolling the shaft back and forth while upping the toy’s pressure and intensity. As you reach your highest levels of arousal and hardness, the clit can become supersensitive, so you may want to lessen the pressure, Nan Wise, PhD, a neuroscientist, professor, and certified sex therapist, tells Glamour. She recommends pairing your toy with lube, which can make your experience more comfortable overall.
Tips for talking with a partner(s) about using a vibrator together
When opening up a conversation about using a vibrator with a partner for the first time, start in a playful way. Some people have hesitant or even negative reactions to sex toys based on their own experiences. You can frame it as if you’re taking on a new hobby. You might emphasize that vibrators can open you up to different sensations, fantasies, and positions. They are not a stand-in for another person—they simply enhance your time together, let you get to know each other better, and have some fun. When you do incorporate a sex toy, be considerate and take things slowly.
Can you use a vibrator while pregnant?
Yes! You can certainly use a vibrator while pregnant, but be sure that you’re diligent about cleaning your toys, as hygiene is extremely important, especially during this time. “Absolutely no switching a toy from anal to vaginal,” Carol Queen, PhD, a staff expert at Good Vibes, says—not that you ever should. You’re likely fine to use most sex toys internally, but avoid deep thrusting and hitting the cervix. And of course, it’s always wise to talk to your ob-gyn and to get specific with your questions (i.e., if your doc tells you not to have sex, Dr. Queen suggests asking, “Does that mean no orgasm? No intercourse? And how long into the gestational period is this advice intended to apply?”).
What’s the best lube for sex toys?
- Water-based lube: This kind of lube is the only option that pairs well with everything (including silicone sex toys, latex condoms, and skin), says Dr. Queen. It’s easy to rinse off and less likely to stain fabric. It does dry out more quickly than other types, requiring more frequent reapplication and rewetting.
- Silicone-based lube: These luxe lubricants are silky-smooth, long-lasting, and excellent for shower sex since they don’t wash off with water alone, says Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute. They also combat vaginal dryness. They should not, however, be used with silicone sex toys or silicone prelubricated condoms, which can break down over time.
- Oil-based lube: There are many oil-based lubes, like coconut oil. Dr. Queen recommends sticking to plant-based oils and avoiding petroleum jelly, mineral oil, and baby oil. Though all oils pair with silicone sex toys, they degrade latex condoms and rubber sex toys, and petroleum-based products have not been formulated for use inside the body.
What are the best vibrator materials and features?
Material: Since there are no federal regulations on sex toys, be sure you’re going with a body-safe silicone or ABS plastic, which won’t trap bacteria or moisture inside, says Amber Mallery, MPH, a certified sex educator and community manager at Bijoux Indiscrets. Stainless steel and high-quality glass are also safe.
USB-rechargeable versus battery-operated vibrators: A USB-rechargeable option is the most convenient because all you’ll need is the cord and you’re good to go. However, battery-operated sex toys are often cheaper (like the $13 Unbound Zip, which Amanda Chatel, sex writer and Glamour tester, loves), so they can be a good choice for beginners.
Cost: Vibrators can run from $10 to $200, but more money doesn’t necessarily mean better. The cheaper toys usually have less power and pattern settings, which can be a plus if you want to solely focus on one sensation. Looking for more power and sensation? Opt for a higher-end pick.
Warranty: If you’re spending a pretty penny on a vibrator, make sure it has a warranty, because you can’t usually return them. For example, Womanizer has a five-year warranty on all their products, and Lelo has a two-year warranty. These are important factors to consider because you never know if your vibe is going to malfunction.
How to clean a vibrator
Perhaps unsurprisingly, sex toys can become breeding grounds for bacteria—leading to the spread of infections and even STIs, Monica Grover, DO, MS, a board-certified gynecologist at VSpot Sexual Health Spa, tells Glamour. “They should be cleaned before and after each use, even if you haven’t used them in a while,” she says.
Studies show that the easiest sex toys to clean and disinfect are made of nonporous materials such as medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, acrylonitrile butadiene styrene (ABS) plastic, and hypoallergenic metals (stainless steel and titanium).
Though many companies make sex-toy cleaners, you can usually use what you have on hand. To clean a nonporous sex toy that does not have a motor, Dr. Grover recommends boiling it in hot water for a few minutes, then wiping it with mild soap and letting it air-dry. If your toy has a motor or battery, skip the boiling; instead, rinse it with warm water, wipe it down with mild soap, and air-dry.
What are the best vibrators for beginners?
The main considerations for vibrators for beginners are figuring out what sensation you’re after—and how expensive the toy is. If you’re truly trying to find an entry-point toy, you might not want to invest a lot as you adjust to different sensations. Bullet vibrators and finger vibrators are great for first-timers since they’re discreet, usually have limited features, can easily be used by anyone externally, and are generally more inexpensive than other toys. (I recommend the Maude Vibe, Dame Fin, and We-Vibe Tango X.) Wand vibrators like the Magic Wand are another versatile choice. You can use them for some warm-up massage across the body that gets you in the mood, then trail down to experiment with further sensation. If you already know you’re a fan of the feeling of oral sex, try a clit sucker like the Dame Aer, Satisfyer Pro 2, or the Lelo Sona 2 Cruise.
How can I make sure my vibrator delivery is discreet?
Maybe you have kids, roommates, or nosy neighbors. Whatever your reasoning, it’s understandable if you’re worried about a package arriving at your house that practically screams “I’m a sex toy!” Most sex-toy retailers make a point of delivering your purchases in logo-free, nothing-to-see-here boxes (“Our plain, boring packaging enables you to shop with Lovehoney in complete confidence” says Lovehoney). Companies like Lelo, Maude, Dame, We-Vibe, and Womanizer all spell out their discreet packaging policies in their FAQs. If anything, the only real danger is someone opening your box because its too unassuming (I kid).
Meet our sex experts
- Carol Queen, PhD, staff expert at Good Vibes
- Amber Mallery, MPH, certified sexuality educator
- Monica Grover, DO, MS, board-certified gynecologist at VSpot Sexual Health Spa
- Justin Lehmiller, PhD, research fellow at the Kinsey Institute
- Jess O’Reilly, PhD, Toronto-based sexologist and author
- Nan Wise, PhD, a neuroscientist, professor, and certified sex therapist
- Shamyra Howard, LCSW, licensed sex therapist and sex expert for Lovehoney
- Micki Allen, sexual health and pleasure educator
- Malia Griggs, Glamour commerce editor who's reported on sex toys and sexual wellness for over four years
- Suzannah Weiss, certified sex educator and Glamour sex toy reviewer
- Amanda Chatel, sex writer and Glamour reviewer who’s tested over 1,000 sex toys
Other vibrators we recommend
We-Vibe Tango X
- Type: Bullet vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: ABS plastic, body-safe silicone
- Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 8 vibration patterns and 8 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: We-Vibe and Lovehoney do not accept returns on opened items, but both offer a 100-day money-back promise on toys you don’t like. Amazon does not accept returns on opened or used products.
Despite its compact size, this super-focused waterproof bullet vibrator is a powerhouse. Jess O’Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sex expert and author, tells Glamour that “its vibrations are powerful and deep” and the We-Vibe Tango X’s tapered tip “presses perfectly against the head of the clitoris.” If you don’t have room for a larger toy, the Tango X is more than up to the challenge—and Shamyra Howard, LCSW, an AASECT-certified sex therapist, likes that it’s beginner-friendly too. It’s easy to hold thanks to its silicone handle, discreet enough to pass as a tube of lipstick, and shaped with a tapered tip that can be angled against the clit for strongly pinpointed sensations. “My favorite part about Tango X is that it has eight types of vibration patterns in a world where most bullets have less,” says Chatel. “I can also hold it for a long time comfortably.”
- Why we love it: Discreet; powerful; pinpointed stimulation
- What could improve: Can only be used externally
Lelo Enigma Wave
- Type: Dual-stimulating vibrator
- Use: Internal and external
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 8 vibration patterns and 8 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
“The first time I used the Enigma Wave, I didn’t even get a chance to relax into it before I had an orgasm,” says Chatel. “It has three motors with a clit-sucking arm and a curved, rotating arm that create a come-hither motion against the G-spot. The Enigma has eight vibration settings, which felt unnecessary. Variety is the spice of life, but when a sex toy scores on the first try the way this one did, everything else seems sort of gratuitous.” Though reviewers said that the thrusting, swirling technology took some adjustment, once they got the hang of it, they had seriously intense blended orgasms ( (i.e., simultaneous G-spot and clitoral orgasms).
- What we love: Quiet; dual-stimulating
- What's worth considering: Pricey; technology can take getting used to
We-Vibe Moxie+
- Why we love it: Dual-stimulating; intense
- What could improve: A little noisy
- Type: Remote-controlled vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 4 intensity levels and 6 vibration patterns
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: We-Vibe and Lovehoney do not accept returns on opened items, but both offer a 100-day money-back promise on toys you don’t like.
The Moxie+ remote-controlled vibrator is an excellent clitoral vibrator because you can fasten it magnetically inside your underwear, wear it in public without anyone knowing, and let your partner take the reins (no matter where they are in the world). “This panty vibrator is powerful, discreet, and designed to be worn around the house or out to a party as your little secret,” says Dr. O’Reilly. “You can remote-control it yourself or pair it with the free We-Connect app and let a partner join in on the fun.”
“This panty vibe doesn’t have the bulkiness that others have, so I can slip it into the pocket of my undies, and it’s a perfect, snug fit right up against my vulva,” Chatel says. She suggest pairing it with tight undies so the toy more easily stays in place.
- Why we love it: Stays put; app-controllable; wearable
- What could improve: Noisy
Dame Fin
- Type: Finger vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 1.5-hour run time
- Modes: 3 vibration settings
- Waterproof: No
- Return policy: Dame offers store credit for returns made through its site within 60 days of purchase. Shipping is not included.
The magic of finger vibrators is simple: They turn your digits into high-powered sex toys, making them among the most intimate and ergonomic vibes on the market (especially if you just want to focus on your pleasure and not on potentially dropping your toy). “I love Fin because its silicone loop tethers it to your fingers and makes it one of the easiest vibrators to hold,” says Chatel. “Plus, it lasts a whopping 90 minutes. It may have only three vibration settings, but I promise you, those are all you need to turn your finger into the perfect vibrator.” She adds that you should apply its soft tremors to other body parts for foreplay.
- Why we love it: Gentle; easy to hold; versatile
- What could improve: Not very long-lasting; not waterproof
Lelo Tiani Duo
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- Type: Remote-controlled vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 10 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
This C-shaped sex toy for couples has a tail that pinpoints the G-spot, while its wide, rounded end thrums against the clit and penis during penetration. Each arm of the luxury toy houses a separate motor, so the vibes are just as powerful internally as they are externally. In order to control the toy, one partner wears a cool remote around their wrist and flicks it up or down—no buttons or apps to sort through. “My partner and I have tried a handful of hands-free, remote-control vibes in the past few years, but this one stands out because of its design,” says one Glamour reviewer. “Once you slip it in, you can tell it’s not going anywhere, and the wider external arm delivers a greater range of pulsations.” Did I mention it’s fully waterproof?
- Why we love it: Can be worn during penetrative sex; motion-controlled remote
- What could improve: Remote control response can be delayed; expensive
Dame Eva
- Type: Remote-controlled wearable vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 4-hour USB-rechargeable with 1-hour run time
- Modes: 3 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Dame offers store credit for returns made through its site within 60 days of purchase. Shipping is not included.
“The Eva is a very unobtrusive toy that tucks between your labia and sits on your clitoris,” says Weiss. “It’s surprisingly powerful for its small size and also works great for solo masturbation.” The hands-free vibrator fits in the vulva and rests between the labia during sex, leaving you available to explore in other ways. Weiss notes that the toy occasionally moves around and needs adjustment. To avoid that, throw on a pair of crotchless panties to keep it snugly in place, or wear it under a strap-on.
- Why we love it: Waterproof; hands-free design
- What’s worth considering: Limited vibration options; short battery life; can be fiddly to place
Lelo Sila Cruise
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- Type: Suction vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 8 vibration patterns
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
The petite Sila Cruise massages the clitoris with gradually building sonic waves. It has a wide mouth than some of its suction competitors (like the aforementioned Lelo Sona), which more easily fits a variety of clits and also dampens the intensity of sensations. “I love the size and orgasm capability of the Sila,” says Chatel. “It fits in the palm of my hand, and its eight vibration settings give me a lot to work with. It doesn’t have the most intense suction, which is great for when I want to take my time—something I recommend to my friends with extra-sensitive clits.” The vibe is surprisingly quiet, as well.
- Why we love it: Gentle for sensitive clits; wide mouth; easy to hold
- What could improve: It’s not as intense as other vibrators.
Dame Aer
- Type: Suction vibrator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 1.5-hour run time
- Modes: 5 intensity levels and 5 vibration patterns
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Dame offers store credit for returns made through its site within 60 days of purchase. Shipping is not included.
In her Dame Aer review, Chatel praises its design. “The head of the toy is oval instead of round [unlike many suction toys], creating more space to fit a whole range of clitoris sizes,” she says. “There’s no fumbling to get it in the right spot, because its shape naturally finds its way there.” The gently curved, soft body is easy to hold for long periods without your hand cramping, and it has a generous range of sensation. “I love the five patterns and five intensities, especially as someone whose clitoris prefers high intensities over lower intensities,” Chatel says.
- Why we love it: Ergonomic; discreet; quiet
- What’s worth considering: Takes some patience to learn how to use
Lelo F1S Male Masturbator
- Type: Male masturbator
- Use: External only
- Material: Body-safe silicone, aluminum, polycarbonate
- Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time
- Modes: 8 intensity levels
- Waterproof: Yes
- Return policy: Lelo offers refunds within 14 days on unused, unopened products.
An overlooked type of vibrator is the male masturbator—a sleeve that fits around the penis and provides automatic stimulation so you can focus on other things. The inside of the F1S has a unique squishy texture and it pulses sonic waves against the penis on a scale of eight increasing intensities. The toy is powered by two motors which focus attention on the penile nerve endings and shaft separately for double the sensation. “I was skeptical about how good this would feel, but I was proven wrong—it stimulates from all sides, with explosive results,” a Glamour reviewer says. “The F1S V3 is really worth firing up when you’re in the mood to play for a while, letting the sensations build up over time. I don’t love that it’s on the louder side and that there isn’t an open top, but cleanup is easy enough.” The toy comes in two sizes, so most penis lengths and girths are addressed, and you can control it via app (a fun feature for either you or your partner).
- Why we love it: Hands-free; cruise control setting; very powerful; app-controllable
- What could improve: A little noisy
