31 Best Sex Toys for Men, According to Guys Who Actually Use Them

Lelo’s popular, high-quality cock ring is one of the brand’s best toys because it heightens the sensation for everyone involved. (Basically, it strengthens your erection and turns your penis into a vibrator, according to Amanda Chatel, a Glamour sex writer who’s tested hundreds of toys, which feels great for you and perhaps even better for your partner’s clitoris or prostate.) Eight levels of intensity—from a demure buzz to a scream-worthy pulse—ensure it’ll never get old. And since it’s app-controlled, you don’t need to fumble with buttons to switch things up during the heat of the moment.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 8 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Great for couples; can allow stronger erections; hands-free controls
• Cons: Might be too tight

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This simple stroker is minimalism at its finest. You can choose from two sides (a tighter end with textured beads and a looser end with ribbing), allowing you to switch up sensations mid-masturbation. “The internal material is squishy and skinlike, with a harder external sleeve for better grip, and it feels incredible when you add a bit of water-based lube,” one Glamour sex toy tester says. “Despite being so affordable, this is the best stroker I’ve ever tried. Just note that because it’s open-ended, this thing gets loud.” When you’re done, wash it off and slip it into a discreet drying and storage case to keep it tucked away until your next tryst.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Affordable; two unique openings; discreet
• Cons: Loud

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Whether you use it as a stroker, a palm toy, or a nipple clamp, this flexible vibrator has the power to heat up your rendezvous for everyone involved, from foreplay to orgasm. Most of all, it’s meant to be worn by someone with a vulva, adding both clitoral and G-spot stimulation as someone with a penis penetrates. (Because of this we don’t recommend it for solo use.) And since it can be controlled from anywhere by an app, it’s a great long-distance sex toy, too. “I’ve been in a lot of LDRs,” Chatel says, and the Sync 2 has been a favorite through them. “It gets the job done and does provide some intimacy in a strange, faraway way.”

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Intermediate

• Pros: App-controlled; waterproof; wearable; quiet
• Cons: Can be tough to keep in place; only ideal for couples

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Male masturbators are a dime a dozen, but Tenga’s option stands out from the crowd with an ultratextured interior and a discreet look. There’s a reason generations of guys have turned to this model. Plus, its opening keeps lube from dripping out during use, and the flip-open design makes for easy cleanup post-O. “I can’t say I could discern the specific contours inside, but they definitely do feel wonderful,” a Babeland reviewer says. “All the extra sensation is so worth it. Not messy at all.”

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Waterproof; easy to clean
• Cons: Difficult to dry

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If you’re ready to kick your male sex toys up a notch, go with this vibrating stroker, which circles your penis with buzzy fins. Each of those fins is decked out with ridges, which both hold onto lube and add even more sensation to an already intense situation. And because it’s not a traditional masturbation sleeve, you can even try using it during a blow job for a deep-throat sensation. (You’re welcome.)

Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 12 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Waterproof; ergonomic handle; great for couples
• Cons: Might not be strong enough

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Blow job sex toys simulate the feeling of receiving head (shocker) without the need for a partner. And with a truly realistic interior, Arcwave’s open-ended pick is ideal for beginners. “Where higher-tech blow job stimulators can be loud, unwieldy, and a little too intense—like a hand job from a robot—this option is so easy to manage,” a Glamour tester says. “Just note that the material is delicate, so you have to be gentle when you’re cleaning it.” Twist the hard outer shell to adjust the tightness to your liking.

Material: Body-safe silicone, plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Adjustable tightness; discreet; realistic feel
• Cons: Loud; delicate material

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Another Tenga gem, this variety pack of sleeves is the ultimate low-effort adult toy: Each one comes prelubricated and molds to the penis with super-stretchy elastomer. Simply choose an egg (favorites include Wavy and Misty), have some fun, and toss it when you’re through. No strings attached—just how you like it.

Material: TPE plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: No cleaning required; fits any penis size
• Cons: Not eco-friendly

Review: I loved the exterior product design, but I also loved how each little egg has an individual design, texture, and feel on the inside. It is a little pricey, but definitely worth it for these adorable little guys. —Nettinne210, reviewer at Lovehoney

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Billed as “the closest thing to a female orgasm for men,” the Arcwave Ion uses something called Pleasure Air technology, which sends pulsating air waves across the frenulum, the supersensitive area just under the head of the penis. Essentially, it’s a suction toy for men—and it’s unlike any other toy you’ve ever tried. After your climax, simply rinse it off and slide it into its charging base. “I won’t say that it feels like how I’ve heard the rose toy described, but it’s a unique sensation that’s great for when I’m craving something different than regular old masturbation offers. If you have money to spend and you’re curious, I’d recommend it,” a Glamour tester says.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 8 vibration settings / Battery: 70-minute rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Intermediate

• Pros: Unique sensation; discreet design
• Cons: Pricey; loud

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This rechargeable vibrator offers up to an hour of juice, meaning it’ll last through even marathon me-time sessions (or adventurous oral sex). And since its silicone wings expand, this toy accommodates a wide variety of penis girths and lengths. Go ahead and use it in the shower, since it’s also waterproof.

Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 14 vibration settings / Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Waterproof; easy to clean; fits a variety of bodies
• Cons: Limited battery life

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The most famous male sex toy—yes, the one you saw advertised next to the first porn you ever watched—is still very much worth your time. Fleshlight’s Pink Lady, its entry-level model featuring a vulva-shaped entrance, holds its own against the many newcomers (no pun intended). Its soft interior and realistic exterior make for solo play that feels almost like having sex; simply loosen and tighten the cap for the right grip and get stroking. The reviews are so positive that they border on creepy: “My orgasms are extremely intense, causing me to shiver in delight as it coaxes my body to pure ecstasy,” one writes. Okay!

Material: Phthalate-free plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Popular; easy to clean; realistic
• Cons: Might be too small

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Maude’s just-released take on the vibrating cock ring is a thing of beauty. With a svelte five vibration modes and respectable battery life, it’s on the simple side—but it’s so powerful that you won’t find yourself wanting anything more. Just ask one Glamour tester: “This is the best cock ring I’ve ever tried. Exploring the vibration modes for the first time was exciting and sexy. My partner and I both enjoyed the vibrations, which made penetration feel better for me than it ever has before.” Sold.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 5 vibration settings / Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Stretchy design; great for couples; magnetic charger
• Cons: Buttons can be annoying to push during sex

“Cock rings are always a good time,” Baratz says, because they can slow the blood flow away from the penis, resulting in harder, larger erections. If you struggle with premature ejaculation, rings can also help delay orgasm, making them ideal for partner play. This four-pack is budget-friendly and flexible enough for those new to penis rings. (And you can even wear them around your testicles.)

Material: Phthalate-free plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Affordable; great for any experience level
• Cons: Could be stretchier

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Time to focus on the prostate, also called the P-spot or the male G-spot. If you’re not yet ready for internal ass play—we get it—Butter’s bright blue vibrator will introduce you to the sensation. The brand recommends using the toy on your perineum (a.k.a. your taint), placing the tapered, fingerlike tip closer to your anus and the larger end toward your balls. “The vibrations really do target your prostate from the outside, which is ideal for beginners and for nights when I don’t feel like cleaning out internally,” one Glamour tester says. “Since it’s such an open-ended design, it’s also so easy to use it almost anywhere else.”

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: Rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Ideal for warming up to prostate play; easy to use
• Cons: Not for internal use

Baratz recommends investing in a set of three butt plugs to “see what feels best,” and this one fits the bill. It even comes with an enema bulb and a lube applicator for cleaner, more comfortable backdoor play. Beginners, this is your best point of entry—literally.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: All-in-one; great for beginners; variable sizes
• Cons: Too rudimentary for experts

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If you’re already well-versed in anal play and are looking for a butt plug you can use in almost any situation, this weighted one will do the trick. It’s a great size for warming up for larger toys or treating it as the main event, and its soft yet sturdy material is just about the most comfortable silicone you’ll find. (Plus, there are smaller and larger sizes available, depending on your experience level.) It also comes highly recommended by Cassandra Corrado, a sex educator who hosts sexuality-focused retreats.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Intermediate

• Pros: Easy to clean; multiple size options
• Cons: Probably too large for beginners

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Craving another kind of anal toy? This vibrating butt plug recreates the sensation of being rimmed (i.e., having a partner flick their tongue against your anus) with a series of rotating beads in its base. Complete with a remote, a clandestine carrying case, and a charging cord, it’s the whole package. “I can simply sum [it] up as wow and life-changing,” says professional sex toy reviewer Chatel.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 19 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Remote-controlled; waterproof; unique sensation
• Cons: Expensive

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Anal vibrators designed specifically for people with prostates can revolutionize the way you think of sex. “Men can orgasm from that stimulation alone,” Dr. Smiler says. “It’s a really novel experience for a lot of guys to have an orgasm without actually touching their penises, and it can be pretty powerful.” This option, which massages the prostate with a come-hither motion and 10 vibration settings, is your best bet. (Peep the similar Lelo Hugo if you want the same features without that beginner-friendly handle.)

Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Intermediate

• Pros: Waterproof; quiet; long battery life
• Cons: Focuses only on the prostate

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This prostate vibrator comes with a remote control, which takes care of all of the work for you—or allows a partner to control your sensations. There are two motors and an entire spectrum of pulsations, allowing you to find exactly the right vibrations to reach your most intense orgasm yet. “Having two motors to adjust and play with is really nice,” a Glamour tester says. “The angle of the tip is just right for me, and it’s great for warming up for couples’ play.” Another feature popular with this tester was the app control, which made everything “easier and cleaner” to adjust.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Quiet; two motors; remote control
• Cons: Focuses only on the prostate

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Unlike conical butt plugs, prostate massagers are designed specifically to hit the P-spot. “Prostate stimulation feels good regardless of sexual orientation,” Baratz explains. “It can be empowering for any person to let go of shame and experiment with a variety of ways to increase pleasure.” This toy is angled to massage the prostate and, at 4 inches, is small enough for beginners, allowing you to ease your way into the world of butt stuff. “It has made me orgasm on its own a few times, and on the odd occasion it can’t get me there, it absolutely intensifies a traditional orgasm,” a satisfied reviewer writes.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Beginner-friendly; perfect curve for prostates
• Cons: Pricey

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This strap-on harness is meant to be worn by a partner without a penis, allowing you both to experiment with a different kind of penetration. While it can be an adjustment to try sex this way, Dr. Smiler says, it can lead to new forms of pleasure—and as Broad City demonstrated, pegging can be fun for everyone involved. Three couples testing the harness for Glamour have all given rave reviews, praising the adjustable harness design and the fact that it works with almost any anal dildo.

Material: Silicone, webbing / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Adjustable design; compatible with a wide variety of toys
• Cons: Could be too small for experts

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For the more advanced folks out there, this stainless-steel wand is one of the most beloved prostate massagers on the market. It’s got just the right curve to find and tease your P-spot, and the two heads allow you to experiment with different sensations as you build to climax. The metal is compatible with practically any lubricant you want to use, and it lends itself nicely to temperature play. (Soak it in warm water before you play for a titillating experience.)

Material: Stainless steel / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based, silicone-based, oil-based / Experience level: Intermediate

• Pros: Perfect curve; compatible with all lubes
• Cons: Expensive

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When you don’t have a partner but want to feel like you do, reach for this veiny number from Lovehoney. It’s available in three skin tones as well as solid black, complete with skin-like silicone, a pronounced head, and a bendable shaft. Its “balls” keep it from going too deep—it has 5 inches of insertable length—and the suction cup dildo base lets you attach it to floors, shower walls, and mirrors. (It’s also great for pegging with that aforementioned harness kit.) Squint and it might as well be a real penis.

Material: Phthalate-free plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Realistic design; compatible with harnesses; sticks to hard surfaces
• Cons: Might be too short for experts

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Wand vibrators are for so much more than vulvas. This standout from Fun Factory presents virtually unlimited options: Use it for a full-body massage. Rest it on your penis and see how quickly you can come. Explore how delightful it feels to run it over your perineum and anus. There’s even a handy “edging program” that’ll tease you ever-so-delicately to orgasm. The wand is your oyster. “This wand is the best one I’ve ever used, and it’s surprisingly discreet,” a male Glamour tester says. “It has a perfect weight, the battery lasts forever, and I can use it for sex and regular massages. The only downside is that it's quite large.”

Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic / Modes: 8 vibration settings / Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Discreet motor; soft, squishy head; great for massage
• Cons: Large design; not waterproof

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If you’d rather commit to a less pricey wand at first, Shibari’s popular mini-wand is a great first step (and pretty wonderful on its own, anyway). It’s not quite as powerful as larger options, but it has tons of vibration modes and won’t wake up the neighbors with an engine-like motor. “It’s nice that the head is bendy so it can hit angles,” one Glamour tester says. Plus, it has “good levels of intensity” and is easy to clean, charge, and store.

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 28 vibration settings / Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Discreet size; tons of vibration settings; waterproof
• Cons: Might stop working quickly

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Looking for something a little more intense than a regular old vibe ring? Enter this cock-ring-cum-ball-stretcher from Oxballs, a brand that specializes in this kind of toy. You’ll get the same benefits as a penis ring—the potential for stronger, larger erections and delayed orgasms—plus lower-hanging family jewels, which the brand claims add to sexual pleasure. (You also might find you love the look of it; one reviewer says it “makes my balls really round and plump.”)

Material: TPR plastic / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Advanced

• Pros: Can result in stronger erections; might help delay orgasm
• Cons: Not for beginners

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Dame’s Pom is a flexible handheld vibrator with a variety of applications. Focus it on your frenulum, perineum, or nipples—Dr. Smiler says that nipple stimulators can be just as pleasurable for men as they are for women—or focus it on your partner during sex. It’s got five vibration patterns that’ll guide both of you to an explosive finish. A Glamour tester says he appreciates that this toy does it all in the bedroom: “I can use it for massage, foreplay, and sex, both with my partner and alone.” The focused, beaklike tip offers “pinpointed vibrations that aren’t too strong until you ramp things up at the end.”

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 10 vibration settings / Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: 3-year warranty; great for foreplay; waterproof
• Cons: More rumbly than buzzy

This flexible, high-tech vibrator can wrap around the penis, be inserted in the anus, and do pretty much anything else for internal and external play, allowing for nearly endless options. (Even the Lotharios of the world will be impressed.) Plus, it’s a great companion for couples of any gender, fitting between bodies easily. Oh, and did we mention it has 6 motors and 28 vibration settings?

Material: Body-safe silicone / Modes: 28 vibration settings / Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Ultraflexible; inclusive of all bodies; app control
• Cons: Expensive; not waterproof

Creative couples can use this Y-shaped toy for pretty much anything, from foreplay to double penetration. Whether you use it as a cock ring or a handheld vibrator, its three separate motors, seven vibration modes, and waterproof design ensure it’ll enhance any sexy rendezvous. “The rounded part at the bottom has bumps molded inside the ring. This feels great on an erect penis!” one reviewer cheerily points out. “You can move the toy up and down while enjoying the different vibration modes, or you can just park it up near the head and foreskin, where the vibrations definitely gave me the most stimulating sensations.”

Material: Silicone / Modes: 7 vibration settings / Battery: 3.5-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Great for couples; three separate motors
• Cons: Might be too weak

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Long-distance relationships can suck the joy out of your sex life, but this masturbator can keep things sexy. With an accompanying smartphone app, a partner anywhere in the world can control this device—and the result is almost like having sex or receiving a blowjob. (And yep, you can use it solo too.) One reviewer sums it up nicely: “If you’re in a long-distance relationship, then it’s definitely worth it!”

Material: ABS plastic, TPE plastic / Modes: 4 vibration settings / Battery: 3.5-hour rechargeable battery / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Great battery; customizable vibrations; connects to other toys
• Cons: Not waterproof

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While you might only know penis pumps as a gag from Austin Powers, they’re pretty popular. The research is limited, and one 2006 article concluded that six months of use only increased penis length by a mean of 0.2 centimeters. However! Many guys like pumps because they’re fun and sexy to use, they can contribute to girthier erection, and they might improve erectile health. This bestseller has racked up glowing reviews for its effective seal and strong suction. One reviewer notes that it “leaves my penis feeling larger [and] sensitizes my penis to all contact.” Worth a shot, we’d say.

Material: Silicone / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based / Experience level: Advanced

• Pros: Can result in stronger erections; might help delay orgasm
• Cons: Not for beginners

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First time experimenting with anal sex, either solo or with a partner? Finding the right angle can be tough. This supportive sex pillow puts your pelvis in exactly the right position for worry-free play. Let things get messy; its cover is machine-washable. “Sex with my partner gets a little easier (and more fun) with this supportive pillow. It’s firmer than you’d expect, which is great for positions that would require a ton of core strength or annoying maneuvering,” one Glamour tester says.

Material: Polyurethane, nylon / Modes: N/A / Battery: N/A / Lube compatibility: Water-based, silicone-based, oil-based / Experience level: Beginner

• Pros: Washable cover; supportive
• Cons: Pricey